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After four years of talking through chat via their messengers, Brett (to quench his curiosity) decided to ask Stephanie if they could talk over the phone. Stephanie was a bit surprised by the invitation but she thought that there was nothing to lose, since she and Brett already knew enough stuff about each other for them to be able to hold a substantial conversation. True enough, that phone conversation lasted for 3 hours and 30 minutes. Meeting up was the next logical thing to do. They met in a seafood place right across Bretts office. The two instantly hit it off, like they did over the chat and phone. After going out on dates for a month, they officially became a couple.
Both Brett and Stephanie are still at awe by their own love story but dating experts know why dating online can work. In fact, it is better in some aspects than traditional dating. When people approach online dating or so-called cheating wives dating sites, they hold up their defenses and always view the negative aspects of it (e.g. youll never hit it off online because there is no physical contact). But that is precisely the beauty of online dating. Because of the absence of physical presence, you get to concentrate on the conversation and the real person. Because each person is in their comfort zone (chat can be done wherever and whenever), there are less insecurities and confidence issues. Dating experts reveal that there are some people who are more comfortable talking to others who they only encounter online because they think that there is less reason to judge them. There is nothing to lose because if they conversation goes sour, one of them can simply not reply to the next conversation attempt anymore.